Events and education
We encourage everyone in the university community to get involved in our programs that aim to help eliminate all types of violence at the university.
We strive to create a welcoming, inclusive community at the university that supports and promotes compassion, equity and respect among our members. In this way, we condemn any behaviour that perpetuates sexual violence and domestic violence. Through education and preventative programming are working to cultivate a culture on campus where we are all responsible for ensuring that members of our community are safe and healthy in order to reach their full potential.
We invite you to make a pledge to take action to contribute to ending sexual violence and creating a culture of consent.
Submit your CONSENT CULTURE PLEDGE
Every year, members of the university community come together to recommit their pledge to end sexual violence by focusing on preventing behaviours and attitudes that perpetuate sexual violence, such as apathetic bystanders, denigration of women, excusing those who commit sexual violence, sexism, strict gender roles, trivialization of sexual violence, victim-blaming and more.
Some examples of pledges that promote a positive message:
- To acknowledge sexist attitudes and behaviours when they arise.
- To always ask for consent.
- To believe victims and survivors.
- To challenge victim-blaming.
- To educate myself on how to have conversations about consent.
- To educate others if they joke about rape.
- To learn more about campus resources for victims and survivors.
- To respect a victim or survivor's choice to report or not report an incident.
- To see myself as an empowered bystander and intervene when appropriate.
We would like to turn the narrative about sexual violence away from one that places the blame on the survivors. This narrative may sound like one that “tells people not to wear revealing clothing” or “not to walk alone at night.” Our narrative needs to focus on promoting messages such as “don’t commit sexual violence” and “we all have a role in ending this.” When we change the way we think, discuss and react to sexual violence, we help create a community focused on preventing sexual violence.
The #WeGetConsent campaign
The #WeGetConsent campaign aims to spread the message of consent across our campus.
Consent is as easy as FRIES:
Freely Given
Reversible
Informed
Enthusiastic
Specific
Consent is an active, direct, voluntary, unimpaired and conscious choice and agreement to engage or continue in sexual activity. Consent to one act does not mean consent to another.
Consent:
- Is never assumed or implied.
- Is not silence or the absence of “no”.
- Cannot be given if the person is impaired by alcohol or drugs, or unconscious.
- Is required regardless of the parties’ relationship status or sexual history together.
- Can be taken back, either through words (e.g. saying no) or body language (e.g. pushing someone away).
- Can never be obtained through threats or coercion.
- Cannot be given if the other person abuses a position of trust, power, or authority.
Student training
RISE Program (Respecting Individuals and Supporting Equity)
RISE: Sexual Violence Prevention
RISE: Sexual Violence Prevention is a bystander intervention skills workshop where participants will identify ways that they can prevent, intervene, and respond to sexual violence and domestic violence, and discuss topics such as rape culture, consent, and the spectrum of sexual violence.
Learn more and register for an upcoming RISE workshop
SHARE Webinars
Webinars will be facilitated by representatives from the Sexual Harassment and Assault Resource Exchange (SHARE) Project.
Standing up to Sexual Harassment
March 2 from 5 to 6 p.m.
Is this sexual harassment? How do you identify and recognize it? Incidents of sexual harassment often escalate, and people are hesitant to call it out and report it. Join SHARE to learn how to interrupt and respond assertively to sexual harassment. Learn legal definitions, early signs, and assertive responses in this interactive workshop.
Register for Standing up to sexual harassment
Disclosure training: Supporting Survivors of Sexual Violence
The goal of this workshop is to develop effective and supportive responses to victims and survivors who disclose having experienced sexual and/or domestic violence to best maintain that individual's dignity and well-being. Learn more about upcoming training and register through the Student Life Portal. The next workshop will be held on February 18 from 3 to 5 p.m.
This workshop provides information on:
- An overview of sexual and domestic violence and consent.
- Advice on how to effectively support someone who has disclosed, e.g. What to say, and things to avoid saying.
- Referring to appropriate support.
- What happens after a referral.
- Confidentiality and limitations.
- Navigating the university's resources on sexual violence prevention.
- Understanding how to support yourself after a disclosure.
- Support services available for staff and students who receive disclosures.
If you are interested in having this workshop brought to your department or group or are a staff or faculty member that would like to attend, please email equity@ontariotechu.ca.
Human resources online training
For information, resources and training on how we all can ensuring that members of our community are safe and healthy in order to reach their full potential, view Ontario Tech University Human Resources: Online Training.
The First Year Me is a theatrical play presented by upper-year students during orientation, highlighting sexual violence and the complexities involved with being a bystander, consent, support for survivors, along with a broad range of other issues students may encounter in post-secondary education.
Let's Talk Sex
January 22, February 12, March 12 and April 19 from 4 to 5:30 p.m.
In response to student feedback provided to the Student Sexual Violence Prevention and Support Committee, Student Life has invited the AIDS Committee of Durham to deliver some workshops to provide education and destigmatization around topics of sex and sexuality. Part of building a culture of consent and respect on campus is providing space for conversations like these. Register on the Student Life Portal.
HIV 101
Registration and more information: https://studentlifeportal.ontariotechu.ca/events.htm?evtId=16733
Destigmatizing Sex and the Power of Sexual Education
Registration and more information: https://studentlifeportal.ontariotechu.ca/events.htm?evtId=16738
Harm Reduction, Hook-Ups and Substance Use During COVID-19
Registration and more information: https://studentlifeportal.ontariotechu.ca/events.htm?evtId=16740
Discovering Your Body and its Pleasures through Sex Toys
Registration and more information: https://studentlifeportal.ontariotechu.ca/events.htm?evtId=16741
The following terms include a range of negative behaviours related to sexual violence.
Term |
Definition |
Criminal harassment |
Criminal harassment is repeated behaviour that results in an individual feeling as though their personal safety is at risk. Criminal harassment includes, but is not limited to what is conventionally referred to as stalking and cyberbullying. Criminal harassment includes:
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Cyberbullying |
Cyberbullying involves using digital communication technologies to engage in harassing behaviour against others. Cyberbullying includes:
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Discrimination |
Any form of differential treatment that results in disadvantage, including imposing extra burdens, denying benefits, and/or limiting access to opportunities, based on one or more characteristics that an individual cannot change about themselves, known as prohibited grounds under the Ontario Human Rights Code, namely:
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Domestic or Intimate Partner Violence |
The terms “domestic violence’ and ‘intimate partner violence’ are synonymous terms that are used to describe the physical, sexual and emotional abuse as well as sexual coercion and stalking by a current or former intimate partner. These violent and coercive behaviours are utilized to gain, cultivate, and prolong power and control over someone they are intimate with. An intimate partner is someone with whom you have or have had a close personal or sexual relationship. This type of violence affects individuals of all different ages, gender identities, sexual orientations, abilities, races, religious backgrounds, income levels and quantity of education. |
Indecent exposure |
Indecent exposure is when an individual exposes their genitals to other people (typically strangers caught off guard) in order to gain sexual satisfaction. Indecent exposure is also known as flashing or exhibitionism and is a criminal offence under the Criminal Code of Canada. |
Intimate partner violence |
Controlling, abusive and aggressive behaviour in an interpersonal romantic relationship. It can happen to anyone. Intimate partner violence can also be referred to as dating violence and domestic violence. All are considered forms of sexual violence. |
Sexual assault |
Sexual assault means a form of sexual violence that involves any kind of sexual contact with another person without their Consent or by force. It can include unwanted kissing, fondling, oral or anal sex, intercourse, or other forms of penetration, or any other unwanted act of a sexual nature. |
Sexual harassment |
Sexual Harassment means a form of sexual violence that involves a course of vexatious comment, conduct or communication based on sex, sexual orientation, gender, gender identity or gender expression, or orientation, that is known or should have been known to be unwelcome. |
Sexual violence |
Sexual Violence means any sexual act or act targeting a person’s sexuality, gender identity or gender expression, whether the act is physical or psychological in nature, that is committed, threatened or attempted against a person without the person’s Consent, and includes Sexual Assault, Sexual Harassment, stalking, indecent exposure, voyeurism and sexual exploitation. |
Stalking |
A form of criminal harassment involving repeated conduct that is carried out over a period of time and that causes an individual to reasonably fear for their safety or the safety of someone known to them. Stalking does not require physical injury; it is enough if the conduct makes a person fearful. |
Stealthing |
Stealthing or Non-Consensual Condom Removal (NCCR) is when a man who is having consensual sex and has agreed to wear a condom takes the condom off, without his partner’s consent, immediately before or during intercourse. From a physical perspective, this action risks pregnancy for a woman and, for both genders, it risks sexually transmitted diseases. Psychologically, stealthing disregards the pair’s sexual agreement, breaks trust, and violates the victim’s consent. |
Voyeurism |
The act of deriving sexual gratification from the covert observation of others as they undress or engage in sexual activities. This may include recording such activity and distributing it. When the behaviour of the individual watching another is unwelcome, repeated and makes the observed person feel unsafe, it may also constitute criminal harassment. |